Approaching Women - Are You Lost For Words?
Many guys find approaching women extremely intimidating. They build up the courage to go over and say hello, but suddenly, they are lost for words! They open their mouths and nothing but gibberish comes out, or they use the same old pick-up lines used by thousands of other men. Lines that women have heard so many times before.
So what should you say that won’t make you sound like a creep or an idiot?
There’s always honesty. You can say you noticed her as soon as you walked in and wanted to talk to her, or that as soon as you saw her you knew that you wanted to meet her.
Just don’t take honesty too far. If you’ve been fantasizing about her for the last thirty minutes, she doesn’t need to know that. If plain honesty leads you to a dead end, you can try saying something neutral.
You can comment on how crowded (or not) the place where you meet is, or about the food or drinks served, or even about gas prices or the weather, if the weather is actually doing something interesting (like an incoming blizzard).
You might also give her a compliment. Beautiful women are used to compliments, though, so use them with care. Just blurting out that she’s beautiful doesn’t tell her anything new.
Try to mention something she might not have heard before that isn’t directly related to beauty. You want to notice something deeper than the obvious about her, so that she’ll also want to notice something deeper about you.
Ten compliments she probably hasn’t heard before:
1.You’re very graceful.
2.Your face is very expressive.
3.I can see you have excellent taste.
4.You have an irresistible smile
5.Your voice is very attractive.
6.Your hands are so delicate.
7.You’re very honest. I respect that.
8.You’re the most interesting person I’ve ever met.
9.Meeting you has made my day.
More than likely, these opening lines used when approaching women are not new to many men, however, use them as guidelines to get yourself thinking about how you can stand out and be noticed. Use them as a catalyst and think outside the box. Create that spark of interest within a woman and practice, practice, practice…and never be lost for words again!
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