Being the Lone Wolf – Why Going Out Alone Works!
Going out on a Friday night alone may not seem like a great way to pick up women. In fact, many people equate being alone with being LONELY – which is not necessarily true. Not every person who goes out alone does it because they have no other friends.
In actuality – hitting the bars and clubs by yourself can be a GREAT way to pick up women. For the men who can pull it off – it can really increase your pickup. I will tell you why
Reason one is that going out alone quickly dispels any lingering problems you have with self-image or other people’s opinions of yourself. As the lone wolf, you quickly learn that the only opinion that matters to you – is your own.
Second reason – you have no “buddy factor” to worry about. You do not have to worry about your friends embarrassing you, driving off a potential date – or worse – picking up your potential date, or what time they have to be home. You can go wherever you choose, leave when you choose and do what you choose.
The third, and possible most important reason, is that you can use your lone status to portray absolute confidence to the women you meet. Say you are talking to a hot chic at the bar, and she asks you who you are with. You say, “I’m alone” in an unapologetic, every-day kind of voice that shows her it’s your choice.
Now – these are great reasons that going out alone rules – but – you also have to LIVE the alpha male, cocky comedy way if you are going to pull this off and get the girl.
You can certainly take this interaction to the next level, as well. Here is where you can totally peak her attraction – by turning the question around and being a little bit of a “bad boy”. When she asks you who you are here with – tell her you are there with HER. She may giggle a little and call you a tease (which is what you want in order to spark her attraction) and then she may ask you again. This is where you tell her, “Look, honey, I just met you and you already want to know all the details of my life? Next week, you are going to be wearing my shirts and calling my Mom to make plans for our honeymoon! Slow down!”
Underneath this little by-play, though, what you are telling here is, “It doesn’t MATTER to me who I am here with, I am confident and maybe just a little out of your league.” Be cocky, funny and a trifle difficult, and see how attractive you suddenly become to women.
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