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Many relationship experts suggest that if you haven’t had much chance to see how healthy, loving relationships work on a daily basis, taking some time to really study the characteristics of a healthy relationship can give you a much better chance of having one yourself.

There are lots of different styles of relationships that can work just fine, but all those successful styles tend to have a few things in common. Here are five important aspects that loving couples display in their relationship with one another.

1. Show Respect

Showing due respect to your partner is the one of the key characteristics of a healthy relationship, whether it’s friendship, dating, or a marital arrangement. A partner who respects you is willing to listen to you in a non-judgmental way, and considers your interests and feelings when making any joint decisions.

Any partner who disrespects you, uses belittling comments, criticizes you in front of family, friends or in public, and totally disregards your feelings, is certainly a partner you don’t need nor want!

2. Provide Support

Following on from respect, support comes in next as a critical characteristic of any healthy relationship. As a couple, you should be encouraging one another to go after important goals and dreams, and giving each other enough freedom to do so. When times get hard, you back each other to the hilt instead of tearing each other down.

However, that doesn’t mean that you should expect unreserved support for everything you do. For example, if your partner is nagging you to stop smoking, to eat healthier, or not to stay at work until 11 o’clock every night, they’re more than likely doing it out of concern for your well-being.

3. Build Trust

In a strong, healthy relationship, neither of you should become suspicious, or jealous, without sound justification. If you have a niggling feeling that you can’t trust your significant other, your relationship will go downhill fast!

That sense of trust doesn’t develop overnight. It comes from each partner keeping their promises and sticking to the mutually agreed rules of the relationship, consistently, over a period of time.

4. No Threatening Behavior

Negotiating is one thing, using threats, guilt, and lies to manipulate your partner into doing something is another. No one should have to put up with being bullied this way. If your partner threatens to leave you, withhold physical affection, or in some other way “punish” you during every little disagreement, you may want to reconsider the relationship.

5. Financial Equality

This is one of the less obvious ones, but it’s just as important as the others. Some people, maybe due to an underlying fear of not being able to support themselves, tend to get into relationships where they’re financially dependent on their partner.

At first, the idea of having someone support you might sound nice, but what happens if things turn sour? If you don’t have the financial wherewithal to leave the relationship when you want, you could find yourself at the mercy of someone who doesn’t have your best interests at heart. Never let your partner use money to control you.

There are dozens of characteristics of a healthy relationship, but these are some of the most important ones. Remember, though, it’s a two way street. You may be doing everything “right,” but if your partner is disrespectful, unsupportive, or manipulative, you can’t call it a healthy relationship.