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Computer dating services have been around for decades, even before the Internet came along. Years ago, these electronic matchmakers used extensive profiles compiled in a dating company’s offices. Some included additional features liked videotaped messages or interviews that were shared with interested singles who turned out to be a match.

Looking back, these computer dating services were considered cutting edge technology. Imagine what it seemed like back in the pre-Web days: you filled out a questionnaire and those answers were fed into a computer, which churned away and finally, after much computing time, spit out a list of potential singles who were the best match for you.

It all seemed so mysterious and technical. In fact, most of those computer dating services more than likely used a very simple matching formula. The “computer” behind the matching was the “hook” or the “draw” that brought paying customers through the door.

These days, with the average person being exposed to so much more technology, with computers in basically every single household and high-speed internet connections being the norm, these old-style dating services seem antiquated by modern standards. So what has become of the “old school” computer dating service?

Well, today they’ve become the modern, Web-based dating services. These are now the well-known, and perhaps not so well-known, online sites you’ve seen advertised so frequently online and most media formats.

On the surface, these new style computer dating services mirror the old-style services, except instead of reporting to the company’s offices for a matching session, you can enter your information from the comfort of your own home. That’s right, go online in your pajamas if you like and fill out the questions online at any hour of the day or night! Talk about convenience!

Beyond the basics of how computer dating services work, the matching process has also become more sophisticated. While years ago a simple matching process was sufficient. These days customers expect a greater level of matching accuracy, ensuring that the people they are matched with are much more compatible than those they would normally meet in the offline dating world.

In the “real world”, a dating relationship could well start with an introduction from friends or family, followed up with a series of phone calls until the two people involved are comfortable with one another. Similarly, the online dating world starts with an electronic introduction between two singles and then, most often, a series of e-mails and perhaps text messaging, may form the basis of a dating relationship.

Have the fundamentals of dating really changed all that much, or just the technology that’s involved?

While it’s obvious that young, single daters would not be aware of the old-style, computer dating services of the past, they’re certainly very familiar with the matchmaking services available online today. The advanced technical gadetry may make it a lot easier to find a potential love-match, but there’s still the basic ‘groundwork’ to be done.

Of course, you can expect a very good level of sophistication and accuracy when the modern computer dating sites are matching your online profile with other available singles. But, keep in mind, the introduction to your match-up is only the beginning. It’s up to you to take your dating relationship where you want it to go. All the cutting edge computer programs in the world won’t make one iota of difference if you don’t take real, positive action yourself.

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