Dating Advice for Men – Learn to Cancel Proof Your Dates!
I hate flakes. And I am not talking about the kind that Head and Shoulders takes care of. I mean the people who cancel on your plans like 2 hours before you are supposed to go meet them. You finally got the nerve up to ask her out, you worked out the date, and then she flakes! Argh!
But it’s not like you can see it coming – so there really is no way to prevent it, right? WRONG buddy! You CAN prevent the “flake”, and it is one of those building blocks of dating that men SHOULD be taking in with their mother’s milk, but they are not.
The first thing you can do to PREVENT the flake before it happens is to tell her – flat as a pancake – that you HATE flakes. Tell her that you are a busy guy and that if she really has no intention of being there to just not make the plans, because your time is valuable.
Sometimes you might scare her off by saying that. That’s ok. Better to scare her off in the beginning, to separate the wheat from the chaff so to speak, before you invest anything in it.
The thing is, when you say this to a woman, you are telling her that your time is VALUABLE. It shows her that your TIME is more important to you than meeting her, which tells her in turn that your status is possibly a little higher than hers is.
Next scenario- on the day of the date she calls you up and cancels. Never fear, because this situation is salvageable. This is a perfect opportunity to use a little “Cocky Funny” on her. Say to her, “Well NICE, you FLAKE! Exactly HOW do you intend to make this up to me?”
Don’t come off as hurt or really ticked off, you want to keep it light, but serious enough to let her know that you really do expect her to make it up to you. After all, your time is worth money! This will also amp up the attraction for her.
Now another method some of the PUAs of the day use to keep their Flake Out Percentage at an all-time low is to actually BE the one to flake. Counter-intuitive, I know. But, David Deangelo says that if you do that, what you are really doing is making ANOTHER date with her right there on the phone, and adding fuel to the fire of her anticipation. Which is ALWAYS a good thing.
So remember – most of the time, your trouble with the ladies is caused by your OWN behavior, or simply not knowing what to do to be proactive in a situation. You’ll never have NO trouble with women, of course, but you can drastically reduce your dump-rate by getting a little education when it comes to dating advice!
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