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Going on a first date with someone you really like can be a daunting experience. You’re nervous, excited, worried and full of anticipation; a bundle of mixed emotions all rolled into one! First date tips come at you from all directions and you’re probably more confused than ever.

What do I wear…what do I talk about…where should I go to make it a “perfect” first date? And, what if the date doesn’t work out, what do I do? Well, is there such a thing as a perfect first date? Probably not.

Guest author, Marvin Perry, has put together an interesting article that might help answer a few of these pressing questions. While it’s written from a woman’s point of view, I’m sure that any guys reading it can make the necessary adjustments.

If you have any suggestions or ideas for making that first date experience a little easier, you are very welcome to add your comments.

Tips On Having A Successful Date

The guy you have always liked has finally asked you for a date tonight. It is not important to ask why and how in the world did he ever thought about asking you in the first place. The only thing that matters is that you and your dream guy will be finally spending the time of your lives in a matter of a few hours. So what do you need to do next?

Pick the right look. With this in mind, girls most often than not go for the look that makes the guys go wild. Not on your first date. Some would actually tell you to dress like his favorite movie actress. Or even something that matches his taste. Keep in mind that in the future, this would be a problem especially if you have different tastes.

Go on your date looking like yourself. First impressions actually do not last and even if your style is not what he wants, he might go for your inner self. So what you lack in appearance, just bring on to your attitude. Do not pretend to be what you are not. Be sure that in everything you do, it shouts your name. You wouldn’t want to be dating a pretender yourself do you?

If the look and the attitude is fine and on the go, you should prepare some simple conversation starters. Topics about religion and race are a no-no. The two of you could talk about your jobs, what you would want to do in the future or latest news today. Seemingly, it is also fair for you to talk about your likes and dislikes as long as you keep it general.

Do not be choosy on where your date will be happening. As long as you feel that it is the appropriate venue for your first date, go for it. If not, you may suggest a little something that will make both of you feel comfortable spending the night with a nice quiet dinner perhaps?

Or maybe, if you are the fun type, a stroll in an amusement park is quite a nice thought. If you both love sports, a night watching a basketball or a hockey game is absolutely worthwhile though some may not consider that a date. A movie for people who frequent the screens or a bar night for music lovers are also options.

There may be many things that you can do on a first date but nothing beats an intimate conversation. Getting to know each other is the part where you will know whether this person is worth your next date.

As much as possible, learn about things that you might consider a factor in choosing your steady date. This will be very helpful when you need someone to rely on during hard times. Consider it similar to choosing your best friend, but more than that.

Finally, make sure that if this person is not the one, end it with a nice and memorable experience for him without giving the impression of an easy-to-get prospect.

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About the Author:

Marvin Perry is the founder of Athletic-Dating.com, Marvin is an avid athlete and he has always had a passion for physical fitness. It was Marvin’s passion for physical fitness which motivated him to create the web site Kentucky Online Dating