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Are you experiencing relationship problems? Have you had a big bust-up with your lover and you’re desperate to find ways of getting your ex back that really work?…I know what you’re thinking, here comes a plug for some program that’s guaranteed to save my relationship without me having to do anything…right?…Wrong!

What I actually want to share with you is a kind of mini-review, or sampling of a program called “The Magic of Making Up”.

A number of readers of my blog who grabbed hold of this ‘get your ex back‘ method, initially contacted me, expressing serious doubts about whether some of the tactics described in the book/audio would work.

What I’d like to do, is to briefly discuss the area of concern, namely, where ‘The Magic of Making Up’ talks about using counter-intuitive techniques to repair your relationship with your ex and eventually get them back.

Now, of course, trying to rebuild a relationship can be a very tricky and difficult thing to achieve. You’re frightened that you’ll make mistakes that will possibly ruin any prospect of success, and you’ll end up losing your ex lover forever.

In the book, it talks about implementing several counter-intuitive approaches to getting your ex back, and these are the aspects that caused some concern. I mean, more often than not, when you’re advised to to something that’s contrary to what you think you should do, it can certainly make you feel a little bit uneasy.

Your first reaction is to think this is the wrong way to go about reconciling with your ex, but as the author points out, these methods have been proven time and again to be effective in even what seems the most complicated situations.

Counterintuitive Technique #1

The first technique you need to use is to agree with and accept the fact that your ex has broken up with you. That’s right, even though you’re not the one who decided to breakup! This, more than likely, will be very difficult. It’s only natural that doing the exact opposite of what you really want to do will be a hard pill to swallow.

It helps for you to understand why you need to agree with your relationship breaking up. Ultimately, it shows your ex boy or girlfriend that you recognize there’s a problem with the relationship and, more or less states that you’re not going to be pestering them about getting back together.

Ironically, this technique also has the advantage of assisting you in regaining respect from your partner. Setting your mind to accept the breakup, even though deep down you want your ex back, can stop you from appearing needy or clingy, which can only make your ex-partner more upset with you than they probably are at the moment.

Counterintuitive Technique #2

The second unconventional technique you need to use is to stop all communication with your ex. Yes, that means no phoning, texting, notes, letters and definitely no showing up on his or her doorstep unannounced. Virtually, you’re going to be non-existant for a period of time!

This relationship reconciliation tactic fits in very well with the previous one. Once again, it helps you to accept the breakup and is the action that shows your ex that you are serious. Not only this, but it also gives your ex time to miss you and, perhaps, get over the reasons for the split.

Another reason for not communicating at all with your ex is that it gives you the opportunity to get your head together, enabling you to think more clearly. You can re-examine the cause, or causes of the breakup and plan your next moves in your attempt to mend your relationship.

Now, I don’t think I’ve let ‘the cat out of the bag’, so to speak, by briefly going over these two aspects of what’s covered in ‘The Magic of Making Up’. Obviously, there are many more critical steps involved in the program that can’t be left out. And, the following video highlights the points we’ve been discussing. Hopefully, it will help you understand further the thinking behind these counter-intuitive techniques. Watch out for what “Tdub” calls “premature reconciliation”!

Unfortunately, what feels like the right thing to do, is often wrong. Most times we should follow the ‘counterintuitive path’, and when we feel like calling our ex is when we should stay cool. When we feel like pouring our hearts out, and throwing ourselves at the feet of our ex, is when we should put a lid on it. Sounds wrong, doesn’t it?

But, if you’ve broken up with your lover, and whatever you’re using as a ‘getting your ex back‘ technique is just not cutting it, maybe it’s time to try the unconventional, counterintuitive methods to achieve relationship reconciliation. Why be left wondering…what if?