How to Flirt With Women – 3 Types of Flirting
Flirting with girls is fun. But it doesn’t have to be mysterious. Here are three main ways to flirt with women.
You can take the initiative and just say something flirty.
You can wait for them to do something or say something that you have a pre-planned response.
You can also do a two-step process. First, bait them into saying something that triggers one of your pre-selected banter lines. Then wait for their response. Then give them the line.
Here are some examples of each:
TAKING THE INITIATIVE: Call her a name jokingly. Look at her funny. Be a little cocky. Active flirting is fun, but it’s a little more risky early on in an encounter. It puts your intentions “out there”, so you have to be pretty sure of the situation to engage in proactive flirting.
PASSIVE FLIRTING: Passive flirting is great, because it appears spontaneous. A man who is great with passive flirting shows signs of having a very sharp mind. Here’s how you do it: you prepare responses to dozens of common things that women say and do. And then you wait for them to say or do them. Then you act like you just came up with a great response off the top of your head. Here’s an example from Swinggcat: suppose a girl bumps into you accidentally, you can respond by saying “Owww, you hurt me. Now you’re going to have to drive me to the hospital . . .”.
TWO-PART BANTER: You can deliver lines that look spontaneous, but which are actually set up. You simply take one of your lines from the previous category, and create the situation that triggers the line. How might that look? Well, suppose whenever a woman asks you what kind of car you drive, you have this funny routine about some crazy car that no one would ever drive. Instead of waiting for her to ask about your car, you could mention off-hand that your car needs to go into the shop or something. She should bite. If not, keep trying to bait her. And you can do similar things for all your pre-planned banter. If you have a lot of passive banter prepared for many situations, this is a surefire way to be able to show off your highly advanced flirting skills.
If you want to learn more about all these methods of flirting, pick up a copy of the book “Flirting Deconstructed”.
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Nice article but to be a good flirt you need to be confident and have self belief in yourself
Yes, I agree, self-confidence plays a very big part in flirting behavior. I also believe it has a major role in all aspects of relationship development; what’s your opinion?
I like the taking the initiative technique the best, for me. I think it takes a bit of self confidence, but also a little bit of nonchalance to really pull it off.