Divorce Issues - The Leading Cause Of Divorce Is Money!
According to numerous studies and expert opinion, the leading cause of divorce is spousal spats concerning money. Arguments about the financial situation of a marriage, where the money is coming from and going to, is seen to be the major reason why couples end up in marital conflict that is often not repairable.
While there are many causes of divorce, it appears that the issue of cash flow in a marriage and how it is managed takes number one position as the relationship wrecker! But, does it have to be like this? Are there ways of working through and around disagreements about the family budget and not allowing money problems ruin your marriage?
If you’re having problems with money management in your marriage, I think you’ll find the following video a great starting point in perhaps finding ways to combat this leading cause of divorce.
I think it’s safe to say that divorce court is not where you want to end up! As was pointed out in the video, among other ideas and suggestions, successful handling of money problems in a marriage can be achieved through meaningful communication between husband and wife, which, unfortunately, is something that doesn’t always take place.
How you control the financial aspects of your marriage are obviously personal. However, if you’ve effectively dealt with this leading cause of divorce and would like to share your experiences and offer some advice or tips, I’m sure many couples going through financial troubles in their marriage would love to hear from you.
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For me, the main leading cause of divorce
is the lack of communication between the couple. .When the lines communication fails the marriage
will be on the rock. How can be a relationship becomes effective if either or both parties won’t discuss their feelings, can’t talk about both mutual or personal issues, will keep all their resentments simmering under wraps, and expect each other to guess what the whole problem is about. In many instances, some problems that cause divorce have existed in the couple’s relationship long before they got married.
The lack of communication on excavating the personality and background of the person you are marrying was not taken into considerations. The problems were either not acknowledged or were ignored in the hoping that the marriage might miraculous work out.
Reading through many articles, I have come up with some of the cause of divorce as follows:
•A) TIME
•B) SEX
•C) MONEY
•D) PERSONALITY TRAITS
•E) LOVE AND RESPECT
It may be categorized specifically depending upon the situation and how you look and view the case:
* Poor or lack of communication of either or both couple
* Lack of commitment to the marriage
* Financial problems
* Dramatic changes in priorities (both personal and career)
* Failed expectations or unmet needs
* Addiction to alcohol and/or substance
* Inability or Lack of conflict resolution skills
* Infidelity / Adultery
* Physical, sexual or emotional abuse
* Abandonment
* Personality Differences or ‘irreconcilable differences’
* Different expectations about having or rearing children
* Interference from parents or in-laws
* Lack of maturity
* Intellectual and Sexual Incompatibility
* Traditions and Cultures which would prevent or won’t allow personal growth, cultural and lifestyle differences
* Personal Immaturity and Falling out of love
* Religious conversion or religious beliefs
* Inability to deal with each other’s little idiosyncrasies
* Mental Instability or Mental Illness
* Criminal behavior and incarceration for crime
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