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Do you think some people take dating too seriously? You know, they’re the ones always trying to find that special person, “Mr or Ms Right”, and fall in love. Dating for the fun of it and just experiencing the enjoyment of meeting new people seems to be something they’ve long forgotten.

It certainly makes dating quite a process! Searching for love on every date can definitely spoil the fun of dating and it can create too much pressure every time you ask a person out. It’s as if you should only ask someone out if you believe it’s possible that you might fall in love with them. Going out on a date then becomes more of a mission, rather than a pleasurable activity!

They have the unshakable opinion that you’d have to be the luckiest person on earth to find love dating different people just for fun and excitement. To them, there’s very little chance they’ll just meet that special guy or girl, that love will just sort of appear in their lives one day and they’ll know that he or she is the one.

Is finding love, dating many different people, just a fairy tale notion? You know, the one concocted by Hollywood or the “Mills and Boon” ideas of romantic destiny. Without doubt, there are many singles out there who believe it is possible. You can meet that special person and have a feeling right away!

Well, what’s your opinion? Do we give ourselves a better chance of finding someone to love by dating a variety of people, or should dating be so calculated that we only date someone with a view to marriage?

I’m sure some of you will disagree with me, but I’m an advocate for dating as often and as widely as you can! Why? Because I don’t believe you can put love in a box and label it or impose restrictions or boundaries on your feelings. It’s a bit like Forest Gump’s famous line…”Life’s like a box of chocolates…”

It takes the pressure off by not seeing dating as a means to an end, where every date becomes a pre-nuptial meeting! Dating without expectations of what should or shouldn’t happen can be like a breath of fresh air, in fact, I think it’s easier to find love dating when you’re not even looking for it!

It’s been my experience in life, that when you stop worrying about what “might happen“, somehow, it’s easier for it “to happen“. So before you ask someone you like out on a date, you need to make a few decisions.

#1 Decide that you’re just going for fun! Remember, no expectations, you’ll have a much better time…believe me!

#2 Relax and stop feeling the pressure that you need to have some sort of love connection with every date. There’s no ‘love-me-commitment” required!

If you’re looking to find love, dating for fun and enjoyment can make the “task” so much easier. Why make it hard for yourself, by feeling that you’re on some kind of quest or mission and you’ll ‘self-destruct’ if you fail?

Who knows, maybe you’re destined to meet your perfect love-match one day at work. Perhaps you’ll meet them waiting in line at the corner store, a concert, waiting to catch a cab or in the crowd at some kind of event…You might also find love dating if you decide just to ‘go with the flow’ and see what unfolds!

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