Romantic Myths - 3 Biggest Misconceptions About Romance By Men.
I’ve done a great deal of research on the topic of romance. I’ve read numerous books and magazines, listened to countless talk-back radio shows and watched many T.V. programs covering the subject from almost every angle. Yet, as I gather information and ideas about what romance is, and what it isn’t, I’m seeing a very clear picture. That men, in particular, hold serious misconceptions about romance; most men are at a loss when it comes to knowing what women want in a romantic relationship.
Three of the biggest misconceptions about romance held by men involve - sex, money and manliness.
# Many men equate sex with romance. Sure, romance can and does lead to sex and sexual compatibility between couples is important in any relationship. However, thinking that any sexual encounter is the ”crowning jewel” of romance couldn’t be further from the truth. In fact, couples can have sex and not connect on any personal or emotional level at all. Sexual gratification is not romance.
# Some men also have the idea that it’s expensive to show romance in a relationship. How costly is a walk in the park, a walk on the beach in the moonlight, a dance in the living room, or a hand-written love poem? Yet, many men believe that dinner at a high-end restaurant, a gift of jewelry or some other expensive trinket, or anything else that costs a lot of money is the only way to state their love. If your partner truly loves you, a romantic gesture that’s most important to her is what comes from your heart, not from your wallet.
# Unfortunately, today’s society still sends a strong message to men that it’s not manly to show their feelings. It’s not “macho” to be romantic, and not being macho is “the kiss of manly death”. Nothing could be further from the truth. A romantic man is one that is confident enough in himself that he can show his true feelings, is loving, considerate and a good listener. He is not afraid to display his emotions on his sleeve. Romance must come from both partners in a relationship, or it will not flourish.
I am aware that some men won’t agree with what I’ve written. That’s fine, everyone is entitled to their opinion and I invite comments should you have something to say. Of course, there are other misconceptions of romance held by men, and women. I intend to discuss more of these romantic myths in future articles.
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