Comments on: Simple Break Up Advice – Do You Save Your Relationship Or Move On?

By: Relationship break up advice

Relationship break up advice — Fri, 16 Apr 2010 18:32:59 +0000

It really depends on the reasons of breaking up because there are a lot out there who’ve been separated not just because of falling out of love but for other some reasons or differences as well. So, there’s a big prospects of being back together if not moving out from each other.
Relationship break up advice´s last blog ..Relationship Break Up Advice Blog: There are 50 ways to leave your lover – Including online…Part two

By: cherrynice

cherrynice — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 19:07:07 +0000

Hi,
My husband and I have been married for about 3.5 years, together for 5. In the beginning we were inseparable. We loved each others company and couldn’t get enough of it. After a couple years into our marriage I gained a bit of weight and had a very low self esteem. My husband has a lot of friends, some of them being girls. He started to come home later at night and we stopped making love. He would tell me all of the time that he loves me the way I am. He said our love went deep. Last month (Jan 10) we had a very big fight and I had blurted some jealousies. He said he couldn’t live like this anymore and that we should separate. I begged and cried for him to stay, but he left. He moved out. He suggested to see a marriage counselor. We made an appointment. A week later he asked me for a divorce saying that he loves me, but he has lost the spark. He said he isn’t ready to take the wedding ring off quite yet but he still wants our relationship to be over and that I should move on. He says he still wants to remain friends though. We both still went to the marriage counselor appointment but he said it was more for closure.

Since, I have lost some weight, gone out with friends and am seeing that other men are still attracted to me. I have been more confident overall, but miss him dearly. I am so confused. It has been about a month now since the break up with very little contact. At the counselor appt. he said it was over, but that we should still be friends and I should text him if I want to go on a walk with him and our dog (he has our dog). He says it is over, but his mixed messages is telling me otherwise. What should I do? It is crazy how one week he tells me he loves me and the next he says it is over. Help! Is it really over? Can I do anything? Can I be his friend?

By: Andriette

Andriette — Sat, 12 Dec 2009 17:08:09 +0000

I think the most important thing during a breakup is to get control of your emotions. This is a very emotional time. Rational thought is a stranger to us in this time. We are filled with the pains of separation, rejection, failure, damaged self esteem and a general feeling of being lost.
Only make decisions and act on them when you are capable of objective and rational thought. Save yourself from falling into a rebound-relationship or making a fool of yourself by running after him. Heal a bit before you do anything.

By: Relationship Breakup

Relationship Breakup — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 00:13:55 +0000

[...] Relationship Break Up Advice | Save Your Relationship Or Move On [...]

By: Breakup Advice That Works

Breakup Advice That Works — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 02:15:55 +0000

[...] Relationship Break Up Advice Straightforward relationship break up advice. Either save your relationship or move on with your life. Tips and strategies if you want to save your relationship with your ex.. [...]

By: Ray

Ray — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 08:13:40 +0000

Hi jonel, I enjoyed reading your post.
I would like to add however that seeking the advice of family and friends should be treated with caution. Although they may think they mean well, some may have their own agenda’s and play on negative traits of your partner. You on the other hand are just seeking support and encouragement,and will want to make your own mind up either way, when the time is right.

Best Wishes, Ray.
Ray´s last blog ..Fix Your Relationship!